12/2/13
Hola Mom and Pops,
Big news this week! I'm not sure how to start this so I will just jump
right into explaining: usually when people are transfered in this
mission, they get a phone call during the day before so they can have
time to pack, but not enough time to fill their whole day with saying
goodbye to everyone. This transfer there were a lot of emergency swaps
last minute, so a lot of people weren't fully informed. We got called
the night before transfer meeting, and were told that Hermana I.
would be leaving and that Hermana C. and I would stay. Of course
we were all sad, and spent the whole night helping her pack up and
write little notes to everyone, but by the time we got to transfer
meeting the next morning, we were all ready for whatever was coming.
Or so we thought. When Las Arboledas came up on the slideshow, it
showed Hermana C.'s picture, and her new trainer, and NOT MINE. I
was very confused--why wasn't I in the area that I was supposed to be?
It wasn't until a couple slides later that my picture showed up with
Hermana W. for the area of Monte Cristo (still in the stake
Ilopango!). Surprise! I was being transfered! It was pretty crazy--we
had to run home to my house and pack everything up (y'all should be
proud that I only took 45 minutes to pack) before we could start our
day. I loved it, I'm not gonna lie. It was an adventure, and I love
excitement.
Now, I'm sure you all want to know a little bit about Monte Cristo.
I'll be sending some photos in another email today, but we've already
had a baptism since I got here! It was so exciting! The sister is a
member of a family of recent converts who have been getting baptized
one by one over the past few months (and will be getting baptized in
the coming months).
This family is incredible. We spend a lot of time at their house,
teaching members of their family and other investigators, so I have
already gotten to know them really well (and the 11 year old
stepdaughter calls me her "hermanita" so that is pretty hilarious).
They are so generous and loving. I stepped into their house the first
day I got to Monte Cristo and they were all hugging me pretty much the
instant I got there. I am going to have a great transfer here--the
other hermanas left our area in really good shape (a lot of really
positive investigators, involvement of members, and references), and
Hermana W. and I are planning to work really hard to keep it that
way!
Speaking of Hermana W., she is great! The first things she said
to me when we started planning for our first day together is that she
is a stickler for obedience, punctuality, and listening--all of which
are things I felt like I was lacking (not much, just a little
bit...don't worry!) in my other companionship! I love that she is so
direct and so firm in her testimony. I have loved all my companions so
far, but what I love most of all is that they all have different
strengths that I can learn from and that I always have something I can
be applying a little more in my life.
My wisdom from this week is the importance of how you view things/what
your vision is. I was sitting in a Relief Society meeting on Sunday,
listening to the importance of Visiting Teaching, when all of a
sudden, it just clicked in my head how truly important Relief Society
can be, when done right. I never really took the idea of bringing
people food when they are sick or going through hard times seriously,
but in that moment, I could see how powerful the impact of a
fresh-cooked, hearty meal could be when someone really was struggling
to make it through the day. When it seems like the world is falling
apart, the little things really do make a difference. I know that this
church has the power to change lives, and that service has power more
than anything else to change people's hearts. Christ when he was on
the earth "went about doing good", and as members of his church we
should do the same.
Love you ALL,
Hermana Romero
PS. Please inform Christy Haynie that I have gotten her Christmas
letter and that, even though it is going to be a challenge, I will
wait until Christmas to open it.
I will be serving a LDS mission from September 2013 to March 2015 in the El Salvador, San Salvador East mission. Weekly (?) updates posted here!
Monday, December 2, 2013
11/25/13
Hey folks,
I don't know how this happened, but it's already the week of my first
cambio (change) here in El Salvador. We are all praying that the three
of us get to stay in Las Arboledas the next change (because that
includes Christmas, as well as the baptisms of some of our favorite
investigators), but I have been praying a lot for the strength to
accept the Lord's will, whatever that may be. Next week, you all get
to find out if anything is changing or if I get the privilege of
staying here for another 6 weeks. Seriously though, it's crazy how
fast time flies on the mission!
Let me first start with the miracle of the week. We had an
investigator who we taught first or second day I was here, and his
cousin was visiting for the day and sat in on the lesson. She (the
cousin) was so positive, and accepted everything so easily, but we
didn't get her exact address so this whole change we have been looking
for her! This past week, we finally found her house and she was home,
and we were able to teach her another lesson. We found out that she
has been reading the pamphlets we left with her and even sharing them
with a coworker who also felt like he was learning so much. I felt
incredible because I had, on the way out of the first lesson, left a
Book of Mormon with her, and she has been reading that too. She said
it answers so many of her questions. It was incredible to see that a
little seed I had sowed a few weeks ago has already had such
incredible fruits. Hopefully I will have more to tell you all about
Paola next week!
This week, I have been reading the Book of Mormon like a fiend. The
rule in this mission is that you can¨t read for your personal benefit
during personal study time, since this is time dedicated to studying
on behalf of investigators. So you have to sneak 5 minutes in during
lunch, or while your companions are getting ready, or while brushing
your teeth, etc. I have a goal to finish by the end of the year, which
is acheivable only if I can read 10 pages a day, which miraculously I
have been achieving! Plus it is helping me so much with learning my
Spanish. I am going to be fluent in no time! My favorite of the week
is Alma 17:2 which talks about how Alma sees that his friends are
still "his brethren in the Lord". This is really my greatest desire in
life--to see the people I love stay firm in the Gospel that I love.
To Mom and Dad, thank you for your emails!!! I am so glad I looked at
them before I sent this letter, because I get to send my love to dear
Abby White! That is, if she is still visiting. She is a sweetie, and
you all are so lucky to spend this time with her. I love hearing about
Joeys Park, and all that is going on.
Much Love,
Hermana Romero
Hey folks,
I don't know how this happened, but it's already the week of my first
cambio (change) here in El Salvador. We are all praying that the three
of us get to stay in Las Arboledas the next change (because that
includes Christmas, as well as the baptisms of some of our favorite
investigators), but I have been praying a lot for the strength to
accept the Lord's will, whatever that may be. Next week, you all get
to find out if anything is changing or if I get the privilege of
staying here for another 6 weeks. Seriously though, it's crazy how
fast time flies on the mission!
Let me first start with the miracle of the week. We had an
investigator who we taught first or second day I was here, and his
cousin was visiting for the day and sat in on the lesson. She (the
cousin) was so positive, and accepted everything so easily, but we
didn't get her exact address so this whole change we have been looking
for her! This past week, we finally found her house and she was home,
and we were able to teach her another lesson. We found out that she
has been reading the pamphlets we left with her and even sharing them
with a coworker who also felt like he was learning so much. I felt
incredible because I had, on the way out of the first lesson, left a
Book of Mormon with her, and she has been reading that too. She said
it answers so many of her questions. It was incredible to see that a
little seed I had sowed a few weeks ago has already had such
incredible fruits. Hopefully I will have more to tell you all about
Paola next week!
This week, I have been reading the Book of Mormon like a fiend. The
rule in this mission is that you can¨t read for your personal benefit
during personal study time, since this is time dedicated to studying
on behalf of investigators. So you have to sneak 5 minutes in during
lunch, or while your companions are getting ready, or while brushing
your teeth, etc. I have a goal to finish by the end of the year, which
is acheivable only if I can read 10 pages a day, which miraculously I
have been achieving! Plus it is helping me so much with learning my
Spanish. I am going to be fluent in no time! My favorite of the week
is Alma 17:2 which talks about how Alma sees that his friends are
still "his brethren in the Lord". This is really my greatest desire in
life--to see the people I love stay firm in the Gospel that I love.
To Mom and Dad, thank you for your emails!!! I am so glad I looked at
them before I sent this letter, because I get to send my love to dear
Abby White! That is, if she is still visiting. She is a sweetie, and
you all are so lucky to spend this time with her. I love hearing about
Joeys Park, and all that is going on.
Much Love,
Hermana Romero
11/18/13
Hey folks back home!
This week/this Pday is one of my best weeks in the mission to date. I
will start by sharing the funny story that prompted the subject of
this email...Hermana C., Hermana I. and I were sitting on
our beds, practicing/preparing for a lesson. All of a sudden, Hermana
C. said to us, "Tengo hambre!" (I'm hungry), and pulled a giant
pack of cookies from her skirt pocket. Hermana I. and I looked
at each other and started laughing.
In terms of the great news, I didn't want to jinx it, but we had our
first baptism this weekend! She is a sweet sweet girl, who has an
incredible desire to follow Christ and be an example to her (less
active) boyfriend, and to her family. The ward has been so supportive
of her, which I love!
I have also been growing so much personally. One of the things that
has been my goal my whole mission is learning to be more charitable.
Perhaps I am pretty good at being nice to others (or, for the least,
not being mean), but I feel like I lack the true charity, which is
having the pure love of God for all people always in your heart. This
week the method of how to do this (in my case, always be asking myself
if I am a blessing or a burden to my companions) became very clear to
me, and at the same time, I learned to forgive and love myself as I
am. Which is another flaw of mine, that I tend to be quite self
critical.
An object lesson from a FHE here in Las Arboledas: A brother from the
ward drew a black dot on a white piece of paper and asked us what we
saw. Answers varied from a hole, an oreo, a point, a dot, etc. After
everyone in the room had answered, he explained that, when looking at
others, so often we focus on the point, on their flaws (the black
point). We ignore everything else about them (the white paper) and
focus on these small flaws. I feel like the same applies to
ourselves--that we need to be forgiving and loving to ourselves. I am
not a perfect missionary. I often feel like Moses in Exodus 4:10, that
I am slow and stuttering of tongue in Spanish. But I am not called to
be perfect, only to give all I can.
As far as my food, I just want to reassure you that I am in great
hands! The wife of our bishop has basically adopted us, and she makes
us lunch (complete with vegetables and meat!) almost every day. In
this mission, we have funds provided for having a cook, so we pay her
for this incredible service (just so you don't worry about us imposing
on her). I think this is one of the changes that I have seen in this
ward since I got here--that they are really starting to love and
appreciate us missionaries, and that likewise, we are trying to serve
them in return. In Latin culture, food is a sign of love, so seeing
that people want to feed us really is progress!
Another cool thing about this week, is the multizone conference in
which we were spiritually fed. I learned a lot, and (as is custom of
the Glaziers), walked away with a new pithy question to ask myself: Is
this helping me baptize and retain? Everything in the mission
ultimately comes down to these two words: baptize and retain. As I
strive to emulate the example of Christ, I need to keep in mind his
purposes in life: help others live a more virtuous life that
ultimately leads to the presence of God. The way we can measure if we
are working towards this goals is thinking about these two things
(baptize new people, and help retain everyone that is already on the
path).
I too, have been praying as you, Mom for Aunt Linda, and that the will
of the Lord may be accomplished in her situation. I admire your love
and your service so much.
Loving you all so much,
Hermana Romero
Hey folks back home!
This week/this Pday is one of my best weeks in the mission to date. I
will start by sharing the funny story that prompted the subject of
this email...Hermana C., Hermana I. and I were sitting on
our beds, practicing/preparing for a lesson. All of a sudden, Hermana
C. said to us, "Tengo hambre!" (I'm hungry), and pulled a giant
pack of cookies from her skirt pocket. Hermana I. and I looked
at each other and started laughing.
In terms of the great news, I didn't want to jinx it, but we had our
first baptism this weekend! She is a sweet sweet girl, who has an
incredible desire to follow Christ and be an example to her (less
active) boyfriend, and to her family. The ward has been so supportive
of her, which I love!
I have also been growing so much personally. One of the things that
has been my goal my whole mission is learning to be more charitable.
Perhaps I am pretty good at being nice to others (or, for the least,
not being mean), but I feel like I lack the true charity, which is
having the pure love of God for all people always in your heart. This
week the method of how to do this (in my case, always be asking myself
if I am a blessing or a burden to my companions) became very clear to
me, and at the same time, I learned to forgive and love myself as I
am. Which is another flaw of mine, that I tend to be quite self
critical.
An object lesson from a FHE here in Las Arboledas: A brother from the
ward drew a black dot on a white piece of paper and asked us what we
saw. Answers varied from a hole, an oreo, a point, a dot, etc. After
everyone in the room had answered, he explained that, when looking at
others, so often we focus on the point, on their flaws (the black
point). We ignore everything else about them (the white paper) and
focus on these small flaws. I feel like the same applies to
ourselves--that we need to be forgiving and loving to ourselves. I am
not a perfect missionary. I often feel like Moses in Exodus 4:10, that
I am slow and stuttering of tongue in Spanish. But I am not called to
be perfect, only to give all I can.
As far as my food, I just want to reassure you that I am in great
hands! The wife of our bishop has basically adopted us, and she makes
us lunch (complete with vegetables and meat!) almost every day. In
this mission, we have funds provided for having a cook, so we pay her
for this incredible service (just so you don't worry about us imposing
on her). I think this is one of the changes that I have seen in this
ward since I got here--that they are really starting to love and
appreciate us missionaries, and that likewise, we are trying to serve
them in return. In Latin culture, food is a sign of love, so seeing
that people want to feed us really is progress!
Another cool thing about this week, is the multizone conference in
which we were spiritually fed. I learned a lot, and (as is custom of
the Glaziers), walked away with a new pithy question to ask myself: Is
this helping me baptize and retain? Everything in the mission
ultimately comes down to these two words: baptize and retain. As I
strive to emulate the example of Christ, I need to keep in mind his
purposes in life: help others live a more virtuous life that
ultimately leads to the presence of God. The way we can measure if we
are working towards this goals is thinking about these two things
(baptize new people, and help retain everyone that is already on the
path).
I too, have been praying as you, Mom for Aunt Linda, and that the will
of the Lord may be accomplished in her situation. I admire your love
and your service so much.
Loving you all so much,
Hermana Romero
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